 Re: Are they or aren't they.
I agree with Teresa, if your wife isn't open to the idea of swinging yet it really doesn't matter if they are or not.
To answer your question though, I would doubt if they are swingers, they could be, but most likely not. Our non swinger friends behave this way all the time yet they are repulsed by the idea of swinging.
Their is no way that I know of to ask them while being sure ahead of time that it won't mess up your friendship with them. We had a similar situation to yours and when we brought up the subject of swinging with with our long time friends and it became apparent to them that we might be open to doing it, they never spoke to us again. So even if you try to word it in a non committal way, it can still mess up a long time friendship.
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