The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How to determine if our friends are swingers?

**TNT** · 12-14-2005, 02:28 PM

Just because a couple is flirtatious with sexually suggestive comments in a social setting, does not mean they are swingers. They could be or they could not be. The only way to know for sure is to ask.

You can either (taken from Mr. Alura)..ask questions that can't be answered with a yes or no answer ....Hey, we saw this program on T.V. the other night and it was about swingers, have ya'll ever heard of such a thing and what do ya'll think about it? Or, just come right out and ask...Hey, you two seem to be very open sexually, are you perhaps swingers?

Either way, if swinging is something that you are wanting to explore, talking to your wife is way more important than finding out if your friends are swingers.

Teresa

12-14-2005, 02:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Are they or aren't they. Just because a couple is flirtatious with sexually suggestive comments in a social setting, does not mean they are swingers. They could be or they could not be. The only way to know for sure is to ask. You can either (taken from Mr. Alura)..ask questions that can't be answered with a yes or no answer ....Hey, we saw this program on T.V. the other night and it was about swingers, have ya'll ever heard of such a thing and what do ya'll think about it? Or, just come right out and ask...Hey, you two seem to be very open sexually, are you perhaps swingers? Either way, if swinging is something that you are wanting to explore, talking to your wife is way more important than finding out if your friends are swingers. Teresa
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