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My wife and I have a fairly active sex life, we’re coming up on 10 years of marriage, and we’ve been together for 12. We often fantasize about FFM; she is no prude, we are pretty wild for the most part. I had never really thought about swinging until we were at a “Pimps and Ho’s” party when a lady at the party told me that she thought that we were swingers. I asked her why and she said because of the way we were dressed. Since the party I have not stopped thinking about the possibility.

A little about my wife; she is very conservative on the outside but she is quite wild. She doesn’t care when I kiss her friends or when her friends kiss me (usually when we are out drinking). We go to strip clubs with friends; she will point out other beautiful women when we are out. I am an extremely flirtatious person. It doesn’t bother her; she just usually rolls her eyes. She is not the jealous type at all; here is an example, we were at a Halloween party and I was flirting with our friend, grabbing her ass, zipping down her shirt, kissing her. Now my wife jokes about her friend being my girlfriend. She refers to several friends of ours as though they are my girlfriends.

Also, I have a company work party this weekend and I am taking out a coworker because my wife doesn’t want to go and she is fine with that. I am a flirt, but wouldn’t do anything sexual (except for the examples above, which my wife is always present) with anyone because I love my wife, but I love the company of women and love to have a fun time.

We were out with my “girlfriend and her husband (Suzy and Bill)” playing pool, couple vs. couple, after the first game I asked if they wanted to swap partners (a little passive aggressive) my wife’s response was “I am too old for Bill”. It wasn’t “No you are sick” Of course my response was “I was talking about pool, what were you guys thinking”. They had a “Sex on the beach” drink special, I asked Suzy if she wanted to have “Sex on the Beach” she responded with “where is the beach” I just looked at her and she reiterated “I don’t think you heard me, where is the beach” I responded with “I was talking about the drink”. I danced with Suzy that night, when she brought us home, she asked that the next time we go out that we invite her and Bill to go in our hot-tub. Suzy also wants to go on vacation with us in the worst way (she has mentioned it numerous times).

I have casually mentioned swinging to my wife but she immediately shoots it down with a resounding NO, so I don’t push it.

Two part question. Do you think Suzy and Bill are swingers and are beating around the bush “no pun intended” and how can I ask them without jeopardizing a friendship?