Thank you for the insight. I guess I just expected different things going in... I do think that they would both agree that I have not been "nasty" per say--I should add I have helped to ration my bluntness over time and with education and self-knowledge--I didn't respond badly.... just emotionally. FYI... the ~ before my "sig" is a water sign, a sign of deep emotion.
Either way... given the different levels in our ideal relationship and our emotional attachment, I think that any emotional reaction I had to it would have been negatively received because she does not feel this is my right... which to me says my emotions run deeper. What have I gotten myself into????
Many thanks,
~Tempest