The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Married male wants to swing, but everyone else considers it cheating

**TNT** · 12-12-2002, 09:18 AM

It never ceases to amaze me how many married men want to get into swinging and their wives have no idea what they are up to.

Why would a couple want to get involved with a married man, whose wife has no idea what he is doing? Single men are a dime a dozen and if a couple wants a MFM threesome, all they have to do is basically pick which single man they want.

I guess that most married men (who want to swing without their wife) think that hey, your having sex with other people, whats wrong with me doing the same thing. Well, yes we are having sex with other people who are not our spouse, but we are doing it TOGETHER. Not behind their backs or without their knowledge. We are not cheating.

Like Lori said, I don't know of any couple who would want to waste their time with a married man without his wife.

You have a long row to hoe if this is what you are wanting to do, not to mention an almost impossible one.

Talk to your wife, work on your marriage. That is the most important thing you can do, not trying to get a little on the side.

Teresa

12-12-2002, 09:18 AM	#3 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,305 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 33	It never ceases to amaze me how many married men want to get into swinging and their wives have no idea what they are up to. Why would a couple want to get involved with a married man, whose wife has no idea what he is doing? Single men are a dime a dozen and if a couple wants a MFM threesome, all they have to do is basically pick which single man they want. I guess that most married men (who want to swing without their wife) think that hey, your having sex with other people, whats wrong with me doing the same thing. Well, yes we are having sex with other people who are not our spouse, but we are doing it TOGETHER. Not behind their backs or without their knowledge. We are not cheating. Like Lori said, I don't know of any couple who would want to waste their time with a married man without his wife. You have a long row to hoe if this is what you are wanting to do, not to mention an almost impossible one. Talk to your wife, work on your marriage. That is the most important thing you can do, not trying to get a little on the side. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.