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Old 12-12-2005, 06:31 PM   #65 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by txduo2000
I consider an open marriage to be one where both partners are aware of the other partner's sexual proclivities outside the marriage, and is approving of the fact, whether they, themselves, actually participate in kind.

Conversely, cheating involves duplicity and deceit. Sneaking around without the other partner's knowledge and/or approval, simply out of complete disrespect of the marriage and the principals that their spouse holds toward sex and marriage.

In my opinion, they are not one in the same, nor even close.
txduo I totally agree with you on the differences between open marriage and cheating. The two are not even close. In the latter (cheating) someone is deceived and gets hurt. In an open marriage everyone is in agreement with what is going on and no one gets hurt.

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