Quote:
|
Bottom line? it's a matter of personal preference, am I correct?
|
I think that sums it up fairly succinctly. It doesn't matter to me if; a) he's cheating; b) has permission; c) his wife is just tired of putting out and told him to go get it elsewhere. That should matter to him and his wife. What matters to me is what I choose....that is to say what I prefer (as above). That determines what kind of person I am. And that's far more important IMO.
And for the record, my gut tells me that a male playing on his own 'with his wife's permission' is a rare bird and not likely one that I'd want to get tangled up with. I would be concerned about the possibility of contributing to an unhappy situation.