The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Married male wants to swing, but everyone else considers it cheating

OhioCouple · 12-12-2002, 05:28 AM

BillyBob,

You are not going to find a lot of sympathy amongst swingers for your situation. The vast majority will say that you are cheating, plain and simple. No couples that I know of nor from what I have read on line through forums and profiles will help a married man cheat. As a matter of fact they will run away from you as fast as they can and if you had lied about the fact that you are married and they find out, consider yourself banned and branded for at least a 100 mile radius. This is most likely not something they would keep quiet in their circles.

I do question, that if you are not happy at home, then why are you still married? There is no good reason that if either of you are not happy and cannot communicate effectively, why you should still be together. Not the kids, not lack of sex, not illness.

I think you would do well to read through the topic in the Single male forums and you will get a very good insight as to how most couples feel about single vs. cheating.

Lori

12-12-2002, 05:28 AM	#2 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	BillyBob, You are not going to find a lot of sympathy amongst swingers for your situation. The vast majority will say that you are cheating, plain and simple. No couples that I know of nor from what I have read on line through forums and profiles will help a married man cheat. As a matter of fact they will run away from you as fast as they can and if you had lied about the fact that you are married and they find out, consider yourself banned and branded for at least a 100 mile radius. This is most likely not something they would keep quiet in their circles. I do question, that if you are not happy at home, then why are you still married? There is no good reason that if either of you are not happy and cannot communicate effectively, why you should still be together. Not the kids, not lack of sex, not illness. I think you would do well to read through the topic in the Single male forums and you will get a very good insight as to how most couples feel about single vs. cheating. Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.