You know, I've never understood the homophobic thing - especially with a couple you've played with before. You're there for the woman, after all. Does anyone really think that if their testicles accidentally touch another male while you're both having sex with the same woman it means you're gay? PLEASE!
Think of it in football terms, as is so popular today: Incidental contact happens, and is no penalty, but Pass Interference will get you tossed out of the game.
Lighten up, folks - it's supposed to be fun, remember?
