The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Do you find kissing to be a normal part of swinging play?

J & K · 12-11-2002, 08:25 PM

J here---the second half of K.

Kissing we both like, but it has some turn on's and turn off's. I saw the post above about the gal says she will put a dick in her mouth, but won't kiss. Sounds normal since a "dick" can't kiss--lol.

We both are use to eachother kissing and when someone else does it it is different. Which can be good or bad. Some folks can be great kissers and others....well...need to learn better.

Kissing can be great, but others need to learn that a mouth can taste real bad and have bad breath. We wish more folks would learn to brush their teeth before hooking up and those that smoke need to learn to use mints---a lot of mints---for non-smokers. Yuck--kissing an ashtray is a TURN OFF!!!! Now two smokers can handle eachother very well. Another thing is being at the swing club and drinking booze and then kissing. Well--how many ladies hate beer and the men drink beer. Go for the kiss and she just taste your last beer. I think it goes both ways, but women tend to notice it more.

Kissing has so many forms. It is one of them things we are never are taught. So tech. can vary from one person to the other.

We both started off saying "No Kissing" when we first talked about doing this. We have played around with two cpls before and found out that kind of went out of the window. It was in the game to kiss while we were at the club to break the ice. Also--we have kissed them when playing at later times. So--every cpl is different on the "Kissing" ideas. There is no right or wrong reasons to Kiss others---it is how comfortable you are with yourself to do it. It has it's turn-on's and turn-off's.

12-11-2002, 08:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
J & K Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 189 Location: Middle GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OKC_CPL	J here---the second half of K. Kissing we both like, but it has some turn on's and turn off's. I saw the post above about the gal says she will put a dick in her mouth, but won't kiss. Sounds normal since a "dick" can't kiss--lol. We both are use to eachother kissing and when someone else does it it is different. Which can be good or bad. Some folks can be great kissers and others....well...need to learn better. Kissing can be great, but others need to learn that a mouth can taste real bad and have bad breath. We wish more folks would learn to brush their teeth before hooking up and those that smoke need to learn to use mints---a lot of mints---for non-smokers. Yuck--kissing an ashtray is a TURN OFF!!!! Now two smokers can handle eachother very well. Another thing is being at the swing club and drinking booze and then kissing. Well--how many ladies hate beer and the men drink beer. Go for the kiss and she just taste your last beer. I think it goes both ways, but women tend to notice it more. Kissing has so many forms. It is one of them things we are never are taught. So tech. can vary from one person to the other. We both started off saying "No Kissing" when we first talked about doing this. We have played around with two cpls before and found out that kind of went out of the window. It was in the game to kiss while we were at the club to break the ice. Also--we have kissed them when playing at later times. So--every cpl is different on the "Kissing" ideas. There is no right or wrong reasons to Kiss others---it is how comfortable you are with yourself to do it. It has it's turn-on's and turn-off's.