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Originally Posted by intuition897 There are definite disadvantages to playing as a single, male or female. But the single females are at a distinct disadvantage when it comes to safety. The truth is, that couple you met at the (very public) restaurant who seemed so nice and real and sane could behave very differently behind closed doors! There's just no guarantee. |
You make an excellent point, and that's why I suggested further communication with the couple she has already talked to over the phone. The fact that they are hosting parties in their own home means that they are more likely to be a known entity in the lifestyle in her area. It's been our experience that people who host parties in their own homes are a bit more concerned about their reputations to the rest of the world. Neighbors calling the police because of loud shrieks of agony at midnight would be a bad thing. Still, you do make a good point, and the advice given to her previously about taking a friend along is still very good.
rugbyjuggalette, you might consider meeting a guy who's interested in this lifestyle and would like to attend parties and go to clubs with you. Upon reflection, it might be that much safer for you. Lacking that, the earlier advice about keeping things public by going to on or off premise clubs would be the better option.