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Old 12-08-2005, 10:41 PM   #152 (permalink)
EternallySingle
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Default Re: How do I find a single female interested...

That site already exists. In fact, most sites are like that. They just aren't geared totally for singles. Its not a great setup because most women ARE NOT LOOKING ONLINE FOR SINGLE MEN!!!! I've gone out with two women who have ads on swing sites. One dumped me after I posted my picture on the site she belongs to (this is after we had gone out three times and she invited me over for the weekend). The other I see occasionally, like once every six or seven months after she breaks up with her current boyfriend.

Really, the easiest way is to just meet women through the normal methods and just see how open they are to swinging. Some do, but only with couples and other women. Some do, but they only want men as escorts and backup to clubs. Some do, but they quit swinging during the early part of their relationship with a boyfriend that also swings. Every once in a blue moon you might meet a single woman on a swing site that is interested in a boyfriend AND swinging with him. The swinging will almost always come first in those situations, and the boyfriend part much later.

Its all about patience. If you are not willing to work at gaining her trust, only her panties, that is all you will get. And don't think she will put you above her couple and female friends if thats the case. If you don't offer her anything but sex, that is all you will get. And she WILL get more than you if she swings regularly so...
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