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hilltop · 12-08-2005, 11:47 AM

Hi rugby,

Ves and Kitty have given you some really good advice.

Going to an online group or chat room as a single female makes you water in the desert. You're going to be swamped with "invitations" and you should be leery of all of them. TRUST NO ONE!

The suggestion to go to an organized event is a good approach. Also join an ad site then only contact people YOU find interesting instead of puting yourself out there for "public consumption". You'll still be overwhelmed with invites and contacts but you can weed through them.

Of course this fella wants to go to an event with you and says you don't have to do anything . . . he's looking for a "ticket" to get into the show.

Take it slow and only do what you are comfortable with.

Please be safe and let us know how it goes!

12-08-2005, 11:47 AM	#4 (permalink)
hilltop Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 568 Status: single male	Re: Advice for New Single Female? Hi rugby, Ves and Kitty have given you some really good advice. Going to an online group or chat room as a single female makes you water in the desert. You're going to be swamped with "invitations" and you should be leery of all of them. TRUST NO ONE! The suggestion to go to an organized event is a good approach. Also join an ad site then only contact people YOU find interesting instead of puting yourself out there for "public consumption". You'll still be overwhelmed with invites and contacts but you can weed through them. Of course this fella wants to go to an event with you and says you don't have to do anything . . . he's looking for a "ticket" to get into the show. Take it slow and only do what you are comfortable with. Please be safe and let us know how it goes!