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Old 12-07-2005, 08:39 PM   #9 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy
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Welcome to the spotlight...
Thank you!

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What are your favorite movies?
We don't really have any 'favorites'.

Ther are movies that, when channelsurfing, will cause us to forget what we are doing when we become engrossed, no matter how many times we have seen them before.

For Candy: "Love Actually"; "Bridget Jones' Diary"; "The Fifth Element"; "Hero" (China); any of the "Lord of the Rings" trilogy, and sometimes, "The Matrix"

For Sweet: "The Fifth Element"; "Hero" (only if dubbed); any of the "Matrix" trilogy; any of the "Lord of the Rings" trilogy

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What book (or periodical) is currently on your nightstand?
We don't read in bed. Bed is for sex, and occasionally, sleeping.

More to the meaning of your question - Sweet only reads online material and and spends hours online everyday. Candy would like to finish out the list of Agatha Christie's works before moving on to "Pride and Prejudice", "The Count of Monte Cristo", Home Decor mags and on and on . . .

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What one song describes each of you best?
Drawing a blank here. We just kind of listen and enjoy. Bits here and there strike a chord of resonance. A better association for us would be artists.

For Sweet: Van Morrison

For Candy: Melissa Etheridge

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Boxers or briefs?
Briefs

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Thongs or panties?
Depends on the time of the month.

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How do you integrate running a for profit website into your daily life and into your play life?

Does it ever take over your life ( I.e. end up being "the tail that wagged the dog")?
Sweet already took care of clearing up this miscommunication.

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I noticed your faces are displayed on your profile... very brave. It is something many of us would not choose to do, out of fear of being "discovered" by our relatives or children.
Oops. That should have just been our avatar.

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What made you choose to be so brave and do you worry about being "outed" as a swinger?
We don't consider it brave - just a choice. Several of our family members and friends know.

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Are there precautions you have taken to hide it from your children that you would recommend to the rest of us?
Our kids are aware that we are sexual, and their knowledge is of a level that is appropriate for their ages. When they figure out that we swing (and we are sure they will), they will probably not be surprised. We don't shelter them from human sexuality.

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What is the best thing about swinging?
For Sweet: The thrill of the chase
For Candy: That sexuality is not taboo (can be myself)

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What is the worst thing about swinging?
Flakes/Posers
Duds who dangle pics of their hot wives out like they are carrots on sticks, and have no pics of themselves

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What do you think is the biggest misconception about the lifestyle that people outside of it hold?
~Cat
Sweet runs into this one a lot: Vanilla people think it's a free-for-all orgy-style behavior.

Candy's impression is that vanillas think swingers are amoral or immoral.
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