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Originally Posted by Flori_DAMAN As a single male that has been swinging as a couple for many more years than a single I would propose that couples that are interested in singles...and those other single swingers give an honest opinion.
I choose to not be involved in a relationship currently. I also choose to swing. What is it about me that makes me so attractive to couples that like singles?
I know I am because so many express an interest in me. I know many single females in the same boat.
I think this is an important subject.
The reason I think I am attracted to couples that like single guys is because I am not pushy, or demanding, I am handsome, have lots of experience in the lifestyle and consider the sanctity of a marrraige to be of utmost importance. I also know that if I were not handsome not one of the couples that express interest in me would give it a second thought though.
Lately I have recieved many offers to swing with couples. I have gotten to know quite a few people on this board intimately. Some single females, some couples. They always just like the fact that I am non-threatening.
Is that the only quality that allows me to expore this lifestyle succesfully? I know IM not the best looking guy on the block. I know I am no body builder.
I also know that true swinging couples that are not only into couples love the adoration of both single guys and single women.
I have talked to a few other guys that seem to be in demand also and they relate the same thing to me.
Ya know, there are very few couples on this board that I would actually swing with though. THat is another thing. I am picky also. There are people that just live to pick on me. Some couples that don't do single guys love me anyhow and I love them.
I am sure some single guys that want to swing should not swing. They are only interested in getting laid easily. I know of some couples on here that should not swing either.
I mean with single men. Many couples should not swing with singles. That seems so basic it hardly seems like mentioning. I mean who needs to hear it anyhow? It is like the weight issue, or the attractive issue. No one can be insulted because of a category. Only if they chooses to be. There is one female on this board that is vindicative. IF she wanted my dick so bad she could taste it I wouldn't whip it out for anything in the world. There are too many like minded couples that love singles like me to feel obligated to......well OK< more than one. Yes, there are more than one single women that seem to attack single men.
I rarely hear single guys attack single men. I hear great advice from some though. I hope you don't mind MR. Alura, but you are a true guy that isn't into singles but would never insult one. I respect that. I guess some females need to somehow overstate there objections out of animosity rather than really contributing to everyone in the lifestyle, whether they be single or couples.
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I am a single guy trying to find some local couples to swing with. It is hard for a single guy to find a couple that want a single guy, most want a couple of female. I understand that to a point. But alot of us single guys are looking for nice fun loving couples to have fun with. I know there must be some couples out there that are looking for the same. all of us single guys are not pigs just looking to just use the woman for our own pleasure. Like my self I really enjoy helping to bring pleasure to everyone involved . To me that is the most enjoyable part of it. It is good friends, good fun, pleasurable times for all. maby I am just looking at it all wrong, you tell me. Thank You peace3