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Originally Posted by EternallySingle I don't think its neccessarily being superficial. I think its a matter of where their comfort level is. Some couples refuse to have anything to do with a single man or woman that doesn't want a platonic relationship and only wants to meet for sex occasionally. Some couples refuse to have anything to do with a single man or woman that wants to establish a friendship on any level other than sexual. The same goes for some singles. Its what they are comfortable with. |
i completely agree with what your saying here. i wasn't real clear. i don't mean shallow as an insult at all. i meant sort of promiscuous i guess..lol.
i was never, even as a single very promiscuous. i was rarely faithful..lol...but it was always with people i had or ended up developing friendships with. for me it just seems like it wouldn't be worth the trouble unless there wasn't more of a payoff than the same physical orgasm you could have with anyone or anything.
experiencing new people you're attracted to, on alot of levels; the desire, and flirting, and foreplay are what makes swinging, and sex in general, appeal to me. (of course, i am a girl..lol) but i certainly appreciate the 'just in it for the sex' approach.