[EternallySingle]

If the other woman told you she only sees you as a platonic friend, you need to stop thinking of her as someone you might have sex with. You are excited that another woman likes you a lot, and that has turned into a sexual desire for her. Thats natural. You just have to remember that she is just a friend and not let yourself become more attached to her. Talking things over with your wife will help you get over your feelings for the other woman. That will make you feel less guilty.