Thanks AZ. It's nice to know that others have been there.
txduo - I appreciate your comments. My play partner doesn't want a poly relationship. Although we haven't really discussed what he wants from here on in. He just said he needed a break and that he would see me again soon. That the break is not forever.
Dbl D - I think that is what I am getting at too. I need to talk to him about what this relationship really is and how we want to continue. He has indicated that he wants to continue and I know we will have to stop short of Poly but there is a lot of room on the contuum between swinging and poly. I guess we need to figure out where we are on that line. Thanks for your comments.