 Re: Feelings
I think you are being very honest and considerate of all... including your own feelings, which is a very mature standpoint.
You are not denying your feelings or dismissing his.
I am sure you will find a solution...in the mean time. Perhaps you should do some research on the “poly " lifestyle. Many of those in it seem very happy, but I am sure it has its pitfalls too.
Certainly, there must be a board like this for that lifestyle...somewhere.
I have but one question... is it the single man who is not comfortable with your feelings and the poly definition? I only ask because from reading this post, that is the only item that seems unclear.
Your mate appears confident in your commitment, you appear caught off guard by your own feelings, yet still firmly in love with your mate (as the fact you chose to stop, be honest with him and talk through it indicates), So that leads me to the assumption that it is the single male who is really thrown for a loop by this.
Am I reading this correctly?
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