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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey Obviously there is nothing wrong with your feelings. You have been open and honest about them with your husband and both of you are on the same page.
I think, given the fact that you are sure the single guy doesn't want anything "poly" then you are best to change the situation by backing out of it. No sense making it worse for you by deepening the feelings...
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Good point....thanks. I think I am going to have a talk with him about what he thinks this relataionship should look like before we would resume anything. Going back into the same situation will result in the same feelings. If I do resume things with him it needs to be out in the open what we both expect and where the boundries are. It is just not the time to bring it up since we just had the "taking a break" discussion. I need to give it some time.
Thanks again.