[J n T]

I have had a similar experience with the male half of a couple. I think it is perfectly natural, and it did not at all lessen my feelings towards my husband. I suggest you talk to your husband openly about the poly lifestyle, maybe that is more for you than you realize. If not, then a break probably will help, especially if you get out and play with some other people in the mean time. That is what worked for us. Good Luck!