Hi there,
I have got a major problem and I donīt know to whom I can talk to, so I hope I will get the right direction from you guys. Here the situation.
I am 27 and my wife 26 years old, married since 2000 and we do know each other for over 8 years now and yes I love her very much.
In 2002 I met a girl (Susan) and from the very first day on we had a very good friend-relationship. She introduced us two to her boyfriend and after a few months all 4 of us become very close friends. At least we like each other very much but my relationship to Susan is every time a inch closer then to her hubby (already married). I just want to underline that we (4) are not into swinging.
And after talking to my wife she is also not into swinging. Poor me but what can I do...
..anyway.
Since one month Iīm really crushed into Susan.....I know it sounds weird and it is more the teenager-stuff but we talked about everything and I felt that comfortable with her that I wanted to kiss her......I didnīt.
I am confused now.
1. I do love my wife.
2. Iīm "crushed" into Susan.
3. Susan is my very best friend.
Now comes my question: Should I commit to Susan that I do like her alot like "I love you"? or should I respect her as a best-friend and erase my (sexual) feelings to her. Sheīs the one who told me that she loves me in a platonic way. (Sorry for bad translation) Itīs hard for me to explain myself in an other language but I have noone to talk to. Please help.
Best regards
Thomas333