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Originally Posted by joenmichelle the words I LOVE You is reserved for my wife and i....as anything else goes... we are in it for fun i hope that makes sence |
I does make sense, of course... but because it makes sense anything that works for the relationship.
Anyway, this has to do with my previous question. As for me, I don't expect her to have sex with someone while imposing some sort of limitation on her feeling about him or her, and the same way, I think I wouldn't be able to enjoy sex if I were unable to express the feelings triggered by the whole situation. In fact, I wouldn't define swinging, for us, as "recreational sex" and several couples here said it is for them, insthead I preffer BLove way to put it "a way to grow togheter" with my partner.
This leads to anoter related tought. Did you see when an adult ask a kid to tell who love him/her the most, if his/her daddy or his/her mommy? Well, I believe thats one of the most cruel questions you ever can ask someone to answer, and certainly I love my wyfe too much as to ask her such a cuestion as for her to compare her love for me with her love for someone else. In the other hand, I am not going to bargain: I am with her because of what I feel about her more than my perception on what she feels about me.