Gosh it's so nice to hear I'm not alone in this totally embarrasing situation. This is my first post here.
My wife and I just recently tried swinging and we are still newbees.
I wish I would have known about this forum before hand.
Anyway, the same damn thing happened to me my first time and I was in friggin shock man. I have literally never been that depressed in my whole life. (the gulf war included)
We backed off a month or so and decided to try and give it another go at it with the same couple whom we like very much.
Wholy shit, the same damn thing happened, even when I was feeling comfortable and excited. Hell, my damn pecker seemed to get smaller!
The minute I got home my damn dick was hard as a rock. Me and my wife just looked at each other and laughed.
But this is serious now, we both want to do this successfully together, and have fun and enjoy the company and sex. My wife said she will refuse intercourse with the other male if I am impotent during the next encounter. I feel this is unfair to the other couple who are also in this problem with us.
But that is her rule, so then it becomes mine too.
So, I ordered 4 pills of 100mg Viagra. I will expiriment before we actually get together with the other couple again. I don't want to go from limp, to killing the other girl with a rock hard dick for 2 hours.
If the Viagra fails in the next encounter, we will probably give up swinging entirely. We don't have any other answers...........
What get's me is, I can't figure out what's causing this. When I'm, with my wife I can orgasm, keep my erection, and keep having sex passionately without flinching. I can usually get a hard on just by looking at other women. What gives man?
I really, really hope the Viagra works.
My wife and I have such a wonderfull relationship. I think we could really enjoy this and I hope it works out for us.
I will let all the interested men on the board know how it works out.
It may be a while, our game plan is to chill for a couple weeks and maybe even months. Let me built my confidence, and forget about the last 2 occassions (ya right). Expiriment with the Viagra. And no sex or masterbation for 1 week before the next encounter.
Almost sounds like to much damn work huh.........
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