It's good to hear that other's have had this problem before and how you handle it. This board is great isn't it? There's always someone who can relate, understand and offer some insite to your dilema.
We actually had a blast at the club last night but it was overwhelming. And while we were kind of "spoken for" as bear_and_babe mentioned we ended up not being able to play with them for some of these same reasons.
good times, we are like you guys in that we sometimes go to the club not to play but just because it's a fun night out. The atmosphere is great and we occasionally are in the mood to just visit with everyone, dance, play pool and then go home and be with just each other.
Chicup, thanks for explaining this was part of your reasoning for your "leaving the lifestyle" thread. I don't remember if you explained it on that thread but now it does make sense. There can be lots of reasons for occasionally needing to just step back and think about things.
Mrs Spoomonkey