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Chicup · 12-03-2005, 06:57 PM

Spoo it was the start of what you are experiencing which prompted me to write my ‘leaving the lifestyle’ post.

We had lots of couples wanting to meet us, we had people we wanted to meet, people we wanted to avoid, people who most likely wanted to avoid us, and it was taking too much of our time and thoughts.

Before we got to your stage, we decided to back off a bit, and return to a hobby rather than lifestyle attitude towards swinging.

Remember what is most important to you, focus on that and don’t worry about the rest.

12-03-2005, 06:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,446 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Do you ever get overwhelmed? Spoo it was the start of what you are experiencing which prompted me to write my ‘leaving the lifestyle’ post. We had lots of couples wanting to meet us, we had people we wanted to meet, people we wanted to avoid, people who most likely wanted to avoid us, and it was taking too much of our time and thoughts. Before we got to your stage, we decided to back off a bit, and return to a hobby rather than lifestyle attitude towards swinging. Remember what is most important to you, focus on that and don’t worry about the rest.