 Re: Question for experienced swingers
some of the advice on this topic seems completely counter to the advice given on a similiar topic i broached about group fantasies. to me "taking one for the team", in allowing your spouse to participate or receive in a group orgy that did not include you, is almost the same thing as getting involved with a guy you aren't so into to get to his wife for your benefit, but more importantly, your spouses. by the same token, i would expect reciprocation from my husband on a male i was into with a so-so physically female.
the responses i got were much more positive than the ones here and i'm curious about that, because we basically asked the same question, just gave different circumstances:
how cool are you in participating in sexual enjoyment for your partner without getting instant sexual gratification yourself? |