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Originally posted by incubus40
The wife/gf is usually initially less distrustful, but once the idea sinks in that I don't want her (or any other woman for that matter) enough to even secretly desire to take her from her man, the knowledge seems to drive her to distrust my motives. This is usually accompanied by several introductions to single female friends of hers, which have often been very enjoyable, but do not lead to committed entanglements and therefore do not garner in the wife/gf's mind the security she seeks. Eventually she will pigeonhole me as a strange one and we will not play anymore.
And since there are so many single females who enjoy a good time with a nice, attractive, finacially secure, gentleman who wants no commitment from them, I do just fine. (*pardon the gratuitous self promotion ) Just food for thought.
Live and love well. |
I kinda lost you here. You are saying that the wife "pigenhole's" you as a stange one because you avoid commitment? Most swinging wives I know kinda like that particular characteristic and consider it an asset when it comes to an extra male. Now, the income has little bearing and looks are of less importance in the lifestyle then in the local singles club but I kinda wonder how many women would think it strange to find a man that runs from commitment. Haven't you read cosmopolitan? Glad to hear you have lots of golfing buddies tho.
I saw no gratuitous self promotion here though...no need to apologize...just because your mirror reflects a studly rich guy doesn't make you all bad, in fact when I look at myself I see an ordinary guy that has to work hard to make ends meet so I guess I justify my shortcomings by avoiding the mirror and meditating on how charismatic I am..and how many peole love me....LOL>...btw I would encourage single males to comment on how many times they actually get back together with the same couple.
If you seem to not be able to do it what are your feelings on the reasons? Do you think its usually one or the other? I mean the hubby or the wife? Or do you think they mutually just don't want to create a pologymous type relationship? Or any else you may think. John