Ya'll just crack me up! Well many people have a problem relaying their personal preferences in print. Therefore a poll so that anyone can vote.
As for the soft swap - no bodily fluids, I suppose I could have worded it better, but that bold notice says to keep it short and to the point!

My meaning behind that was you only play with your significant other in every way shape and form. Ie, no exchange of kissing, or oral sex, pretty much just having sex with your mate in the same vicinity of another couple doing the same.
Lori