 Re: Question for experienced swingers
Welcome
1) Unfortunately the senario is very common
2) It's called taking one for the team and trust me, it's the worst possible thing you can do. You'll be resentful that you're having a terrible time while your spouse is having the time of their lives.
Different couples handle it differently. Some just don't play as often because they don't want to "settle". Some play seperately or go to on-premises clubs or house parties where there's more than 4 people, so you don't have to "pair off".
In any event, this is definitely going to happen to you again if you continue swinging, and you have to decide how you're going to handle it. Over time, it becomes easier.
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