[kittylikesmfm]

i'm not talking about romance exactly..more what eternally single was saying. i'm kind of like him in the sense that without being attracted to the personality, a dildo or adept handwork during foreplay serves the same purpose as another person. and my husband definately feels the same way about the single women. the ones we know that we've discussed it with are good friends and we have alot of fun hiking and cooking or whatever; we just generally enjoy their company and look forward to seeing them. they'll do things like sit on my lap, or we'll play with each others hair. we certainly aren't in love, but that kind of comfort (not identical activities of course) is what i'm asking about. the same as you'd have in any one-on-one sexual relationship that was good but still pre-commitmant; if that makes sense..lol.
anyway thanks for the thoughtful responses guys.