Well, it looks like you received more “support” than I did. It finally happened to me several weeks ago. I am still trying to get over it.
We’ve been corresponding with this couple for about two weeks and after a brief phone conversation, we finally met. It was perfect. Everyone was attracted to each other and we felt completely comfortable. Even though we don’t usually play on the first meeting, this was a no brainer. I was hard as a rock, but lost it while performing oral on her. Not her fault - I really like her - it just went south. I only got it back later in the evening while having sex with my wife. The other woman was pissed.
We spoke with them several days later and she basically blamed me for not having a good time. She also insinuated that I had a problem in that department. Boy, did that one sting. Anyway, we haven’t spoken to them in over two weeks and it looks like they are not interested in getting together again. It’s pretty sad, since we have so much in common.
We are scheduled to meet another couple this weekend and I really don’t want to go. My wife wants to “party” and told me to get over it, since she “knows” I don’t have a problem. Yeah - right! Easy for her to say.
The lifestyle is by far easier for women than it is for men. There is no clear indication if you are not interested or completely aroused. We men on the other hand have something “sticking” out that must stay hard in order to satisfy you. If we are not up to the task, everyone in the room knows. That is a lot of pressure.
M