View Single Post
Old 12-01-2005, 04:24 PM   #23 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois
Sex is emotion in motion!
 
Menage_a_Trois's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 561
Location: Reno, NV
Status: Couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois

Menage_a_Trois gives some great advice
Default Re: After-Effects of First Time Swinging

Well after Mrs. Menage and I played with another couple for the first time(full swap), a couple of things changed. First, for about the next two weeks or so it seemed like our sex life went into overdrive, like all the sudden we found this new sexual high gear. We had always been very sexual and passionate with eachother,unable to keep our hands off eachother, but this was even beyond that. It was like a new sexual high. The other thing we noticed was how much we both wanted to talk about our experience. It was like for the next few weeks that was all we talked about. We had decieded from the first time we talked about getting involved in the lifestyle, that we were going to jump into it with both feet and see if it was for us or not. We both agreed that we would know if it was right for us and the only way to do that was to just jump right in and try it, no easing into it gradually. I wouldn't advocate that approach for everyone, but it worked for us. We both had no jealousy issues to deal with, so we didn't see any need to take it slow and easy. Just the way we are. We realized that the lifestyle was exciting to us and LOTS of fun, plus we enjoyed meeting others with similar interest. The effects on us after that first swap, let us know this was right for us. And after 9 years in the lifestyle, we still get that "sexual high" after meeting a playing with another couple. We luckily found a girlfriend who also shares theses same qualities pertaining to meeting people and playing in the lifestyle. For all of us the after effects of playing in the lifestyle are an important part of the total experience for us.

Mr. Menage_a_Trois
Menage_a_Trois is offline