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Originally Posted by hub1331 My wife Angie and I have engauged in a "three way" several times, m/m/f.Now, we`ve decided to find a couple that we like or go to a club and check that out(never been to one)problem is she don`t want to play right now due to being pregnant.She would like to wait until the baby is 3-4 months old before we leave him/her at an all night babysitter.thats August next year!!Real problem:I want to get to know some people between now and then so that when shes ready to play I don`t have to look far. Also I want to check out a club to see if it would be an option but I don`t want to appear as a single man, can I go as a guest of a couple that are members,and are there any takers!! |
Ok - I wasn't going to go here but I can't resist!!! I am also newly pregnant, and I can see your wife's side of things. First - playing while pregnant opens your wife to getting STI's, and therefore can transmit those to your unborn child. STI's can cause irreparable damage to your child. Second, you are being selfish!! This is a time for you and her to connect and celebrate the creating of a new life together. Third - When your child is 3 or 4 months old, she may not be ready to leave that child anywhere overnight. You might think about taking her out to dinner by yourselves for a couple of hours at that time, and even at that, she is going to want to call the sitter every 10 minutes to check on the baby. Take it from someone who has been there.
I'm going to tell you very simply - This isn't about you, its about her. Being pregnant is a life altering experience for a woman - there are things that are happening to her body that she has no control of and the hormones are raging. Don't pressure her into anything, she needs your love and support more than anything right now. If the urge to go out and screw is that desperate, then go masturbate. You might find that if you support her, that she may want to swing with you in the future. But pressuring her is the one sure fire way to get her to never want to swing again.
In the grand scheme of things, a pregnancy is only 9 months long and your child is only an infant once. Enjoy this time with her and your baby to be, you will only get to do it one time. Swinging is always going to be there.
Jenn