 Re: absolute newcomers
I absolutely agree with Julie's comment about security in the relationship. You really need to discuss the topic inside and out, upside down and backwards before you swing; monogamy isn't the societal norm by accident. There are alot of big landmines in reliquishing the implied sexual ownership of your chosen mate. Online has really opened up folks ability to explore this world and fantasy non-comittally, and it's great that you're taking advantage of that.
As far as exhibition, my husband and I like to show on our webcam in the adult chat rooms on the free messengers....(yahoo specifically but didn't want to appear to be spamming). I think there are lots of options out there for that though. Just at ya'lls age, be very careful about personal info and location please. It's a pretty fun, non commital way to see how each of you react to the inclusion of other people in your sex life, however removed.
Good luck
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