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Originally Posted by hub1331 I think I could make some pretty good friends between now and then!  |
"I" could make some pretty good friends between now and then??
Sounds kind one sided to me. If you two are in the lifestyle as a couple you should stay that way. Friends and playmates can come and go and there are always plenty to be found but your spouse is forever and should always come first. A general rule is always go at the pace of the slower partner.
Swinging is an outside activity for us and falls into social events not much different then going to the movies, a ball game with friends, vacations or a night out on the town. Family and our life as a couple ALWAYS comes first. The lifestyle can be put on hold for many reasons. Kids graduate, illness or surgery, sometimes work or schedules and being pregnant are all things that can and should make you have to step back and step out of the lifestyle for a while.
You need to focus on this special time with your wife. It is a brief moment in the scheme of your life and will be gone in the wink of an eye. Don't miss it!!!!
Mrs Spoomonkey