 Re: Not quite solid.
It's very hard to perform under pressure, and having to feel like you have to perform really well to satisfy a woman that doesn't know you like your wife knows you can be really daunting. I've been lucky that until recently (covered in another recent thread) I haven't had any performance issues, but many of the men we've played with have. In fact the husband of a couple we know well went forever and ever with Mrs. WS three weeks ago in private (and never came), but when we got together a week later at a party he had a hard time keeping an erection. We were at their house this week and the other wife and I let Mrs. WS and him have a quicky and he came almost right away. So it can be different in different circumstances. Same guy, three different results.
Also, it happens to women. We'd been swinging for nearly a year before Mrs. WS was comfortable enough to have an orgasm with another guy. She had "stage fright" too.
Mr. WS
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