I know Danny already posted but I do want to add my comments. I actually prefer a smaller man over a big man. I am only 4'11" and I do have a shallow cervix. I can only take about 6 inches, so anything more is a bit of a waste. I do like a thicker man as the extra girth does hit the right spots and does feel good
I have found that thicker men that are over 7 inches just is not comfortable to me. I can and do have sex, but the intercourse just isn't the best unless they take it easy. I usually get on top when I am with a bigger man so I can control the motion and depth.
Carol xoxoxo