You poor dear sweet men!.......unfortunately many of you still think sex is a competition.'what if he's better than me ?'.....'What if she likes it bigger than me ?'......'what if.....' and so it goes on forever.
Relax guys.......so what if there is comparison......it means nothing!I'm sure that most other ladies would agree with me, the pleasure of the moment is all that matters.
My husband says to me..'I hope the next sex you have is the best sex youve had'.....my normal response ,every time is,'my last one is going to be fantastic'........but its true.Its not important if its him or another guy that gives me 'the best sex ever',because we are together, sharing that moment anyway. That moment would not have been there if not for him,so there is no problem with comparison.
If a guy has trouble because hes experiencing anxiety,just make sure you relax him,assure him hes not competing,and just get about proving that sex is the most fun you can have without laughing. facelick
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