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sereneiders · 11-10-2005, 06:34 PM

Only ladies answered this one, lol.

Well, guys, don't let me alone here.

We are swingers from 1 1/5 year by now, and it still happens to me... dammit.

I believe it's an anxiety thing related with the expectation presure we put on ourselves: "oh, well... she's a swinger... experienced with other guys... she'll compare me against them, but it's ok, I never had a complain" but our little friend keep thinking by itself, and you need just a little flaw from him to start worrying and... that's it, you mind is trapped: "I know, you're joking... ok, enough joking pal... damn! I know, the more I think of this, the worst it goes, so I wont think of this... ... ... damn! I am NOT thinking of this... am I thinking of this when I think of not thinking of this? mmmm yes... ok, let the fingers and tonge play... hopefully she'll understand and have fun as well... but pal, you owe me an explanation".

In the other hand we have some regulars, and it seems as time goes on and you get confident, your pal give up.

We swing at our club, and there things could be worst because of the people hanging around. I tried Cialis, but even when it seems to work at the begining, it doesn't seem to make much difference at last: I am sure my pal already said no to drugs.

But I will try the ring stuff and let you know.

11-10-2005, 06:34 PM	#7 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: Not quite solid. Only ladies answered this one, lol. Well, guys, don't let me alone here. We are swingers from 1 1/5 year by now, and it still happens to me... dammit. I believe it's an anxiety thing related with the expectation presure we put on ourselves: "oh, well... she's a swinger... experienced with other guys... she'll compare me against them, but it's ok, I never had a complain" but our little friend keep thinking by itself, and you need just a little flaw from him to start worrying and... that's it, you mind is trapped: "I know, you're joking... ok, enough joking pal... damn! I know, the more I think of this, the worst it goes, so I wont think of this... ... ... damn! I am NOT thinking of this... am I thinking of this when I think of not thinking of this? mmmm yes... ok, let the fingers and tonge play... hopefully she'll understand and have fun as well... but pal, you owe me an explanation". In the other hand we have some regulars, and it seems as time goes on and you get confident, your pal give up. We swing at our club, and there things could be worst because of the people hanging around. I tried Cialis, but even when it seems to work at the begining, it doesn't seem to make much difference at last: I am sure my pal already said no to drugs. But I will try the ring stuff and let you know.