[robel12550]

Could it have been when push comes to shove, she finally realized that the "fantasy" of a bisexual encounter was more intriguing than the potential "reality"? The other wife might truly have been interested in the possibility on the previous meetings, but when it actually was knocking on her own door decided that maybe it wasn't that good of an idea.

As I read it (for what that's worth) she might have gotten a case of the cold feet when the moment of truth arrived. As I just wrote to someone else earlier today, Life has a way of changing on you as time moves on. Who is to say that in the future she might become intrigued again and will take you up on your flirtatious advances.

The only thing that somewhat bothers me is that the other husband (from what you wrote) basically asked you to leave the premise while they had some fun with your husband. What if you wanted to watch? I thought that was fairly rude.

On the other hand, your husband was "up and demanding where all this is coming from", which sounds pretty confrontational. Again, not knowing exactly what transpired before this climatic announcement, it might have been a valid response, but personally I could only see myself thanking them for their time and deciding to move on (if the mrs. didn't want to watch this one out or we couldn't talk them into just staying with our representative spouses).

So in reading your rendition, I'm not certain you were "disrespected", but were somewhat rudely treated and possibly by someone who really didn't know how to handle his wife's split second decision change. But as I look at the swingers listings, there are probably plenty more folks out there if those can't float your boat.