[starlinn]

I am going to make this as short as I can. Met a couple on line that lives about an hour away. We have met with this couple on two occations, and everyone seemed to get along and are interested in each other. Heavy flirting, petting, etc...The husband calls yesterday and asked to meet at their house in the evening, kids are gone. I was like WOW, cool. Hubby was also excited. We get there, drinks, chat, flirt, etc... Wife leaves to get something to drink and hubby follows. Hubby comes out and blurts, " Although I would love to be with you, my wife isnt interested in you." (meaning me, starlinn) Although a little shocked, because of the heavy flirting, I am respectful enough that I would never want someone to take one for the team.
The biggest shock was what he said next: "My wife is interested in him (mrstarlinn) and wants to be with him. If you want, you can come back and pick him up and we would BE KIND ENOUGH to return the favor in the future." (meaning he would be on loan to us) Before a word comes out of my mouth, mrstarlinn is up and demanding where all this is coming from, they knew what we were looking for, this was never discussed, etc...
The husband of the couple kept appologizing as we were leaving, saying the wife really isnt into the bi thing.
I am racking my brain, wondering if this was always the motive behind the whole mess. There was never any indication that they had alterior motives, or that we gave out any signals that this set up would be a possibility. Mrstarlinn is so angry because of the time wasted, and the disrespect. I am still in shock.
Do you think this was on their minds all along?