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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie use toys and movies to act out fantasies with just the two of you. It's not the same but it's something and acting out the fantasies in that way can help you both open up and communicate better which may lead to actual swinging down the road. |
Dito
I agree 100% we have yet to find a SM swinger who fits us so we have been using toy's to act out the desire till we do.
It's not the real deal, but it works. Maybe by doing it though, your spouse may find the desire as well.
Tatt