 Re: Awkward position....(no pun intended)
I understand where you are comming from ladyjane. But the general rule of thumb is to go at the pace fo the slowest partner. In this case you have to let your husband set the pace of how quickly or slowly things will happen. Just keep talking about it. But remember to keep emotion out of it. (or atleast stronge negative emotion). As far as what you can do to satisfy your urges, other than cheating, I think you just keep a strong fantasy life going. Swinging isn't for everyone. It might not be for him. Let him take his time to figure out things on his own.
At least that's my 2cents worth for free. Good luck to you.
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