OK, so after I thought things were going well, hub has backed off.

I don't know what it is, he says he's interested, but I can tell something is bothering him and he won't say what. I however, am VERY interested, and know that I would love to do this. I would never do it if he doesn't agree, though, and I would never cheat.

So my problem is, um, I guess I'm not sure how to word it.

I really want to do this, but if it's not going to happen, what can I do to, er, satisfy the urges, without hurting my husband? Does this make any sense? Please understand, I do not want to cheat, and I respect my hub's wishes, if he is not comfortable, fine. But I am left very disappointed. If this makes any sense to anyone, can ya help me out? TIA!