[nhcpl1968]

Since then he has been able to perform quite well, although, he is never as rock hard as he is when we have sex alone. Also, his erection will come and go like it has it's own agenda. I've also noticed that all but one of the males we have played with have been the same way. Not quite a solid erection and it comes and goes. Each and every time I have tried to get on top of a swing partner, they loose their erection. My husband told me this also happens to him. If a woman gets on top of him, he looses it. This is not the case with us having sex alone, as this is one of our favorite positions.

So is it just coincidence that we happen to play with people who have the same issues, or is this common? Has it ever happened to you? Does it change after you have been swinging for a while? We have only been in the lifestyle for a couple of months. Everyone seems to take it in stride, oh well, it happens, Mr. Happy's got a mind of his own. , but we are just wondering if it changes in time. Will anyone but me ever experience the " Full " pleasure of Mr. 101? We would love your imput. Thanks Mrs.101

I have had this problem with first time encounters with new partners it is normal to happen .... and it will get better the longer you are in the lifestyle .