[curious24]

Thanks for all the replies! One of the reasons why I even asked is that I had been swapping short and sweet messages with this one lady (like one sentence messages and a total of maybe 5 messages). Then out of the blue she asked me if I wanted to join her and another couple. I asked if the other couple had a profile and if so if I could see it. I never heard from her again. I thought that was really strange to say the least.

When I read Chicup's responce something in me seemed to click and go AH HA! It seems maybe I have been approaching this wrong? Ultimately I'd really like to have a friendship with people I play with. At the same time I would like to have a conversation with someone before playing with them you know? I guess I'm just not used to people just saying on the first email come over and fuck. Maybe I should change my expectations?