We have a couple we play with that we'd love to become better friends with, and think we will.
We have others we just like to keep it to occaisional sex. We may end up not seeing them again at all because something better really did come along.
Since we're really just beginning to tap the waters we still have a lot of folk we need to meet and find out about. You
know that you can have sex with someone and like it but you also just
know there could be something better out there. We only have so much time. Unless you are real committed to the lifestyle you'll never have time to have a lot of different relationships. Sometimes you meet a couple that sets a new standard for the people you are looking for. You have to drop someone. Some folks know that and never make certain commitments. You probably have done it yourself. Just try to be as positive and attentive as you can. Try to get a real feel for who they are. You may end up not liking them as much as you thought or they may like you more than you like them. Dilemmas everywhere.
Just take it slow and as it comes. Be honest in your communications and eventually, if you're patient, good things should start falling into place for you.
It's about the same as when you and others met for sex...there had to be a connection. Well, some people are looking for other things in their friends besides sex, but it still started with a sexual connection.
Not sure if this made sense as I've had a few pales and
Fem D simply wore me out tonight. Surrender Y'all shoulda been there. facelick
Male D