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sereneiders · 11-04-2005, 11:22 PM

I agree about everyone's personal tastes.

Anyway, it seems much like an odd mix to swing TO make friends... as for me, it would be something very close to craving for attention and love: "i'll give up my ass if you hang out with me and we go to movies"... know what I mean?

I'd say it's like in any other context: you meet people and you start realizing you have things in common and even differences that seems to be appealing to you, that you enjoy these people company, so you find out excuses to meet these people and one day you find yourself talking of them as "my friends". This may happen at work, when doing a sport activity, at the club, when hanging with common friends, and also swinging.

But you wouldn't choose a job because of making friends there, nor swing with the same purpose. Of course, swinging involve a degree of confidence that brings things closer enough as to be one step behind being friends, and you may find out these people you share your bed with are actually friends. But I'd say that's just by coincidence.

11-04-2005, 11:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: Friends with others in the lifestyle? I agree about everyone's personal tastes. Anyway, it seems much like an odd mix to swing TO make friends... as for me, it would be something very close to craving for attention and love: "i'll give up my ass if you hang out with me and we go to movies"... know what I mean? I'd say it's like in any other context: you meet people and you start realizing you have things in common and even differences that seems to be appealing to you, that you enjoy these people company, so you find out excuses to meet these people and one day you find yourself talking of them as "my friends". This may happen at work, when doing a sport activity, at the club, when hanging with common friends, and also swinging. But you wouldn't choose a job because of making friends there, nor swing with the same purpose. Of course, swinging involve a degree of confidence that brings things closer enough as to be one step behind being friends, and you may find out these people you share your bed with are actually friends. But I'd say that's just by coincidence.