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***JustAskJulie*** · 11-04-2005, 11:07 PM

I agree that everyone is different. Having played from both the couple and the single female perspective, I've encountered both types from both angles. Although, I will say that as a single female it seemed like I encountered a lot more people who were in a lot more of a hurry to get to bed and skip the friendship (or so it felt). Maybe it was just that they saw the elusive and were making every attempt to grab it before it went away (only to end up pushing it away, sadly).

As a couple, I'd say our encounters were about half and half... well maybe 1/3 and 1/3 with the other 1/3 being those who weren't ready to do anything yet and never should have met us to begin with.

11-04-2005, 11:07 PM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Friends with others in the lifestyle? I agree that everyone is different. Having played from both the couple and the single female perspective, I've encountered both types from both angles. Although, I will say that as a single female it seemed like I encountered a lot more people who were in a lot more of a hurry to get to bed and skip the friendship (or so it felt). Maybe it was just that they saw the elusive and were making every attempt to grab it before it went away (only to end up pushing it away, sadly). As a couple, I'd say our encounters were about half and half... well maybe 1/3 and 1/3 with the other 1/3 being those who weren't ready to do anything yet and never should have met us to begin with.